so the media tells us "THIN IS IN", "THE LOWER YOUR PANTS SIZE THE BETTER". and thats kind of what i focus on being smaller. over a summer(last summer) i went from an eleven to a seven and currently im between a five and a seven, im pretty happy with my size now i dont feel self concious anymore and i can wear what i want for the most part.
then recently a close friend of mine turned my world upside down. he liked thick girls. i know its not that shocking: bigger breasts, smaller waist, biiiiig butt. but it never was- i guess-threw in my face like that. he told me i was skinny and i wasnt thick enough. and id spent all my time trying to be skinnier and went through alot to get to where i am and he tells me i need to eat more, i need to weigh more??!! and suddenly i felt inaddequate. so im stuck betweeen a rock and a hard place.. do i try to be thick or stay on the slim path? because to me the grass looks green on each side.
Neither. Stay the size you feel the most healthy and comfortable at. No one should dictate that for you.
ReplyDeleteyour right and i know you are its just hard you know. btw you do amazing job with your nails
ReplyDeleteI know you seem to have abandoned this but I really feel like I should say something as this is an issue that has always been part of my life. Anyway, what I have to say is along the lines of ABOPs response. You should lose enough weight to where you feel comfortable and attractive. If that doesn't involve losing any weight then just maintain your current weight. At my heaviest I was 210 lbs and at my lightest I was 150 lbs and honestly I feel comfortable and most attractive at 160 lbs even though I should be around 141 to 144 to be considered healthy by medical standards. Regardless 160 is where I try to maintain. When it comes to your health it's all about you. No one else matters at that point. Here's the other thing: Whoever you end up in a relationship with (and I mean a healthy relationship) will be with you because they find YOU attractive. =)
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